THE PEOPLE BEHIND THE WORK

Meet The Coaches

We do not coach from textbooks. We coach from the places God has already taken us through.

Every coach on our team has a story. A season they survived.
A moment they almost did not make it through.
A faith that held, or was rebuilt on the other side.

We believe that is what qualifies us to walk with you.
Not just the certifications. The testimony.

OUR FOUNDERS

The Story It's Not Over Was Built On

It's Not Over was founded by two women who have lived both sides of marriage crisis, and built something from the wreckage that is helping hundreds of men and women find their way through.

Melody Oseguera

Melody Oseguera

Co-Founder | Marriage Crisis Coach

Marriage Crisis · Fighting for Your Marriage · Faith & Identity

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Sonia Thalman

Sonia Thalman

Co-Founder | Marriage Crisis Coach

Marriage Crisis · The Checked-Out Spouse · Men Whose Wives Have Left

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Between our two founders, we have been on both sides of every marriage crisis we have ever coached.

One fought for six years. One was the one who left.

Together... it is the most powerful thing we can offer you.
Not theory. Testimony.

OUR COACHING TEAM

Specialists for Every Season

Alongside our founders, our coaches bring professional training, lived experience, and deep specialization in the areas your season most needs.

Both coaches below are available for private one-on-one sessions.

Jay Thalman - Transformation Coach

Men navigating marriage crisis, identity loss & rebuilding after collapse

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Attachment Theory · Communication · Relationship Dynamics

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Not Sure Which Coach Is the Right Fit?

That is completely okay. Most people are not sure when they first reach out.

The best first step is to download our free guide, it will help you understand what you are navigating and what kind of support you actually need right now.

Or call us directly and we will help you find the right coach for where you are.

Contact Us

(346) 330-2395
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  • Monday – Friday, 9am – 5pm CST
  • Or, email us at info@itsnotover.net
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Save My Marriage Guide

FREE
  • Your spouse has said they need space, feel numb, or are not sure how they feel
  • You have been told your spouse wants a divorce and you do not want to accept that
  • You are exhausted from trying so hard and seeing so little change
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We firmly believe that financial constraints should not be a barrier to accessing support during a crisis. If you are experiencing financial hardship, please reach out to us directly. Our commitment to serving those who need us is unwavering.

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