THE PEOPLE BEHIND THE WORK
Meet Our Coaches
We don't coach from textbooks. We coach from the places God has already taken us through.
Every coach on our team has a story. A season they survived. A moment they almost did not make it through. A faith that held, or was rebuilt on the other side.
We believe that is what qualifies us to walk with you. Not just the certifications. The testimony.
OUR FOUNDERS
It's Not Over was founded by two women who have lived both sides of marriage crisis, and built something from the wreckage that is helping hundreds of men and women find their way through. Between our two founders, we have been on both sides of every marriage crisis we have ever coached. One fought for six years. One was the one who left.
Together... it is the most powerful thing we can offer you. Not theory. Testimony.
Melody Oseguera
Co-Founder | Marriage Crisis Coach
Marriage Crisis · Fighting for Your Marriage · Faith & Identity
Sonia Thalman
Co-Founder | Marriage Crisis Coach
Marriage Crisis · The Checked-Out Spouse · Men Whose Wives Have Left
MEET OUR COACHES
Specialists for Every Season
Alongside our founders, our coaches bring professional training, lived experience, and deep specialization in the areas your season most needs.
Both coaches below are available for private one-on-one sessions.
Jay Thalman
Transformation Coach
Men navigating marriage crisis, identity loss & rebuilding after collapse
Toby Maxwell
Divorce & Life Coach
Attachment Theory · Communication · Relationship Dynamics
Choose the Level of Support That Works for You:
We meet you where you are, whether you need one focused session or ongoing support to get through this season.
Download our FREE guides, book a session or call us directly and we will help you find the right coach for where you are.
CHOOSE ONE
OF OUR GUIDES
- Find the guide that speaks to your situation.
Each one was written for a specific need. Choose the one that sounds like you.
ONE-ON-ONE
COACHING
- One focused hour with one of our coaches.
Get clear. Get calm. Get a plan for what to do next.
Choose any coach and book directly online.
CONTACT US
(346) 330-2395
- Talk to a LIVE person
- Monday - Friday
9AM - 5PM CST - Or send us an email below...
Schedule Your Session...
We firmly believe that financial constraints should not be a barrier to accessing support during a crisis. If you are experiencing financial hardship, please reach out to us directly. Our commitment to serving those who need us is unwavering.
Call (346) 330-2395 or email us and we will find a way to help.