Toby Maxwell
Certified Relationship Coach Specialized in Integrated Attachment Theory & Communication
Toby has a rare gift: she can hold both the emotional weight of your situation and the clear-eyed logic of what comes next — without making you feel rushed toward either.
Her specialty is relationship crisis, recovery, and divorce recovery, and she brings a deep grounding in Attachment Theory to help clients understand why they feel what they feel — and how those patterns have shaped the relationships they're in. She also works with clients navigating how to help their children heal through a family crisis, because she knows the ripple effects don't stop with the couple. Toby's coaching style is reflective, judgment-free, and deeply validating. Clients consistently leave sessions feeling heard, more confident, and clearer about how to move forward — not because she has all the answers, but because she creates the space for you to find yours.
You don't need to have it all figured out to start. You just need to be willing to be honest and open.